Royal relations

By guest contributor Jeremy Swan

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“This blessed plot, this earth, this realm, this England, 

This nurse, this teeming womb of royal kings, 

Fear'd by their breed and famous by their birth”  

William Shakespeare, Richard II

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Millions of people worldwide celebrated the birth of William and Kate’s first child this week. The response was heartening – world leaders sent their congratulations, landmarks around the globe were illuminated and, at its height, over 25,000 tweets were sent every minute. But why has this story so captured our hearts, and what does this say about us?

Worldwide, approximately 255 babies are born every minute. Yet almost all these births are only celebrated by relatives and close friends. In the public sphere, normal family life is seldom deemed newsworthy. More often, the family is affirmed in a negative sense, when we hear of murders, divorce or tragic accidents. The birth of children to celebrities may generate a minor news story, but the arrival of baby Prince George swept every other headline away.

The celebration by vast numbers of ordinary people has, in a sense, validated our inherent belief in the fabric of family life. People around the world feel they have permission to rejoice publicly in the gift of new life because of who William and Kate are. The relational distance between us and the royal couple is bridged by their unpretentious and accessible demeanour. This sense of proximity is strengthened by the fact that Kate is ‘one of us’: a commoner who was swept off her feet by the charming young prince and (we hope) they will live happily ever after.

Not only has the birth publicly conveyed a positive message about the value of family relationships, the shared experience has brought people closer together and reinforced our common humanity.

The young Prince George was born for a lifetime in the public spotlight, and is third in line to the British throne. Let us hope that his life will continue to do what his birth has done:  to reveal to us the joy of commonplace family life and relationships, where the humdrum and the magical meet. 

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The birth of a first child can bring not only joy but stress to new parents and put their relationship under pressure. The National Childbirth Trust offers information and support for new parents; view their resources here.

Walk the talk

How might you reduce the relational distance between you and others who look to you to play a meaningful role in their lives?

The last word

From the Bible, Luke chapter 1, verses 31-32: “You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus... The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David.”

Egypt and the enigma of democracy

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“It has been said that democracy is the worst form of government except all those other forms that have been tried from time to time.”  Winston Churchill.


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It took 18 days of mass street protests before Hosni Mubarak stepped down as President of Egypt in 2011, but just four days of similar protests this week led to the downfall of President Morsi.  Both illustrate that principle that ultimately no government can rule without the consent of the people.  But the puzzling question is why did the people of the Arab Spring, who fought hard for democracy two years ago, appear to throw it away by welcoming a military coup?

Democratic structures and procedures are like the visible part of an iceberg; one person one vote, term limits on a government, and free and open elections are some of the measurable elements of democracy, and essential to its success.

However, they must be underpinned by an invisible consensus of values, which are essentially relational, for democracy to thrive.  Every member of society must accept to be governed by people they may not have voted for, and to abide by laws they may disagree with.  This is especially challenging in countries with deep religious, ethnic or ideological divides as in much of the Middle East.

Events this week in Egypt show that democratic elections are valued to the extent they lead to a more free, open and prosperous society.  That is the goal the street protestors are seeking – and if, after a year of government by the Muslim Brotherhood, a military takeover looks more likely to move the country in that direction, then it is deemed acceptable.

The crucial challenge for Egypt in the coming months is to reconcile and then strengthen the bruised relationships on which the future of its fledgling democracy depends: between Muslim Brotherhood activists and supporters of opposition parties, between Coptic Christians and Muslims, between members of the security forces and ordinary Egyptians.

Only then can there be any lasting foundation for a government of the people, by the people, for the people.


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In the late 1990s a remarkable Christian initiative called the Reconciliation Walk sought to heal religious tensions in the Middle East going right back to the Crusades.  Read an interview with the walk’s leader Lynn Green here.

 
Walk the talk 
How well do you know individuals from a different, ethnic or religious group?  Why not take the initiative and do something to build a genuine relationship with such a person, ideally from the Middle East, and seek to understand their values and ideals?



The last word
From the Bible, Romans chapter 12, verses 17-18: ‘Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.’