Friday 30 April 2010

Spending cuts: how will the axe fall?


Quote
"Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen pounds nineteen shillings and sixpence, result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pounds, ought and sixpence, result misery."  Mr Micawber in Charles Dickens’ book, David Copperfield.

News
As the government debt crisis mounts in southern Europe, Britain’s government spending overshot by £163 billion last year – 11.6% of national income.  To avoid a crisis of Greek proportions, Britain has to cut this deficit dramatically over the next few years – but in the run up to next week’s general election, none of the party leaders is talking about that.  Instead they imply that “efficiency savings” might be enough – instead of the more realistic “age of austerity” that Conservative leader David Cameron spoke of briefly a few weeks back, before being advised to drop it as too “unpopular”. 

No intelligent person can look at the figures and avoid concluding that major cuts must be made; debt must be tackled at the national level the same way as at the household level – by spending less and earning more.  That requires an agreement by all that it’s for our common good to take these necessary measures.  Our problem in Britain is that people have lost the collective sense that the nation is theirs, and the government is theirs – so ultimately we all have to pick up the pieces when that government overspends – which makes participation in next week’s elections all the more critical.

Relationally speaking, government spending cuts should surely be done as fairly as possible.  The burden should not be made to fall mainly on lower paid workers, through redundancies; rather it should be shared as widely as possible.  Many private sector workers have accepted pay cuts over the last year; would it not be reasonable to expect public sector staff to do the same?

Read on...
We recommend Paul Mills’ paper contrasting the injustices and problems arising in modern debt-based economies with the Old Testament economic model in which interest was banned; to read these insights click here http://www.jubilee-centre.org/document.php?id=3

Walk the talk 
A problem shared is a problem halved; many arguments at the household level are to do with money, especially when the responsibility for getting into a mess belongs to one party more than the other.  However, if both partners manage to agree on steps to get out of the mess, and shoulder the burden together, then unity is restored and finances can be brought back under control.  Is there any way this could be applied in your situation?

The last word
From the Bible, Galatians 6 verse 2: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfil the law of Christ.”

Friday 23 April 2010

Volcanoes: vulnerability, virtue and vice


Quote
“You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.” 
Ralph Waldo Emerson

News
Hundreds of thousands of passengers, stranded for days by the ash-induced flight ban over much of Europe, have found themselves unexpectedly vulnerable, and at the mercy of others to help them get home.  How have other people responded to their plight?

Two particular kinds of response stand out; both involve making a profit.  One group of people have sought to make a fast buck from these hapless travellers, demanding exorbitant prices for hotel rooms, bus tickets, train fares and the like (taxis charging 1000 euros from Brussels to Calais; hotel rooms way over their normal rates; Eurostar train fares 3 times higher than average.)

Another group of people looked on their fellow human beings in distress, and decided to profit from the opportunity to extend kindness and generosity to strangers.  A businessman paid £5000 for a 13 year old boy to get back to Scotland for his mother’s funeral.  In Denver, Colorado, the mayor “has been to our hotel and invited several of us out for a meal at her home,” writes stranded Martin Smith on the BBC website. “It was unbelievable kindness.”  Several pages on social networking websites have been filled with people offering a bed for the night in their homes to stranded passengers.

The first group saw distressed travellers primarily from an economic angle; the second looked at them instead through a relational lens.  The first took, the second gave; I wonder, in the end, who enjoyed their profit the most?

Read on...
The way we respond to strangers is one of the chapters of Michael Schluter and John Lee’s book, The R Option.  You can read the four pages on our website here: www.relationshipsglobal.net/Web/OnlineStore/Product.aspx?ID=44

Walk the talk 
It is liberating to realize that we have a choice how to respond to people who are caught out by unexpected circumstances.  Insurance companies try to avoid paying compensation by calling the volcanic eruption an “act of God”; perhaps it is more accurate to say that it has produced some God-given opportunities to serve others.  Keep your eyes open for the chance to take one.

The last word
From the Bible, Proverbs 11 verse 16: “A kindhearted woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth.”

Friday 16 April 2010

A poetic interlude


We do not have a normal Friday Five reflection for you this week (due to holidays), but instead we would like to offer a brief poetic interlude. 

The following two contrasting pieces describe two very different experiences of being connected with others. One emerges from a deep conviction of human interdependence; the other expresses the attempt to escape from pain in relationships by asserting solitary independence.  

One is an excerpt from "A meditation on sickness and death" by John Donne (1624), and the other is the song by Paul Simon (1965), "I am a rock". 



No man is an island, entire of itselfe; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the maine;
if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friends or of thine owne were;
any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankinde;
And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee.

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A winter's day in a deep and dark December;
I am alone,
Gazing from my window to the streets below
On a freshly fallen silent shroud of snow.
I am a rock, I am an island.

I've built walls, a fortress deep and mighty,
That none may penetrate.
I have no need of friendship; friendship causes pain.
It's laughter and it's loving I disdain.
I am a rock, I am an island.

Don't talk of love, but I've heard the words before;
It's sleeping in my memory.
I won't disturb the slumber of feelings that have died.
If I never loved I never would have cried.
I am a rock, I am an island.

I have my books and my poetry to protect me;
I am shielded in my armor,
Hiding in my room, safe within my womb.
I touch no one and no one touches me.
I am a rock, I am an island.

And a rock feels no pain;
And an island never cries.

Friday 9 April 2010

The iPad and the iWorld


Quote
“Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water, or do you want to change the world?" 
Steve Jobs of Apple, in recruiting John Sculley away from Pepsi-Cola in 1983.

News
Apple's newest creation, the iPad, was released for sale in USA on Easter Saturday, selling 300,000 units on the first day.  Billed as a new type of device that's a hybrid between a smartphone and a laptop, the iPad is designed for multimedia consumption, capable of supporting games, videos, electronic books and magazines, as well as regular internet browsing.  

Over the years, Apple's products, including Macintosh computers, iPods, the iPhone and now the iPad, have become industry leaders with their unique blend of aesthetic design, cutting edge technology and an intuitive user interface.  Part of their success is the way Apple products meet the postmodern culture's emphasis on fashionable brands to identify with and also for maximising freedom of individual choice and expression. 

Yet the iPad and similar technologies might have a more profound impact on society, if they accelerate the trend towards video based news media, at the expense of the written word and a more careful analysis of current affairs.  The increased access to a vast range of sources (hundreds of news applications are available for the iPhone) may make it harder for people to know which ones to rely on.  Trevor McDonald, for many years anchorman for ITN’s News at Ten, was voted the most trusted man in Britain; whom will we look to for accuracy and reliability when each consumer effectively becomes their own news editor?

Read on...
One of Relationships Global’s international collaborators is politics lecturer and pastor Dale Kuehne.  His recent book, “Sex and the iWorld: Rethinking Relationship beyond an Age of Individualism” alludes to Apple products as icons of individualism.  His far-reaching analysis explores current issues around sexuality and considers the kind of world we are creating.  For an introduction to this challenging book, read the Amazon review here http://www.amazon.com/Sex-iWorld-Rethinking-Relationship-Individualism/dp/0801035872

Walk the talk 
Our challenge is to retain a critical awareness of the way that digital gadgets of all kinds affect the way we interact with the world, and relate to other people.  It’s all too easy to view the latest Apple product as a “must have” item, without thinking through how it might subtly influence our relationships.  Why not take stock of your current use of digital gadgets by asking a person close to you what they feel about the way you use your computer, music player, or mobile phone?   

The last word
From the Bible, a verse on responding to the news – Acts 17:11 “Now the Bereans were of more noble character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.”

Friday 2 April 2010

Good Friday Five

The staff of Relationships Global - Michael Schluter, Marilyn Collins and myself - would like to take this opportunity to wish you a very Happy Easter on this Good Friday ~ commemorating the day that changed more relationships than any other in human history.
 
Instead of presenting our usual Friday Five, we invite you to read the first "Going Global" - the newsletter of Relationships Global. 
 
You will find the 2 page news bulletin on our website - click on this link: http://www.relationshipsglobal.net/Web/OnlineStore/Product.aspx?ID=41