Friday 30 September 2011

Cameras on the road to Damascus


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“Knowledge is power” – attributed to Francis Bacon;
“A little knowledge is a dangerous thing” – attributed to Alexander Pope.

News
The US Ambassador to Syria was pelted with tomatoes and eggs yesterday as he met with an opposition leader in Damascus.  Pro-government supporters expressed anger towards the US Administration for comments which “encouraged armed groups to attack the Syrian security forces”. 

Earlier this week a BBC reporter was one of the few foreign journalists to be allowed into Syria since the protests began 6 months ago.  She has not found any members of the public willing to speak critically of the government on camera.  However, other Syrians are secretly filming incidents and uploading them to the internet.  “Our weapon is the camera” declared a young protester, “Our revolution must be live, on-line.” 

International reaction to the Syrian pro-democracy movement has been relatively muted, in part due to the complexity of Middle East politics.  However, the more that human rights abuses are exposed in Syria, the stronger the moral argument for intervention. 

The question is, how are moral judgments – and therefore relationships – influenced by information?  Control of the media is a vital strategy used by many authoritarian regimes in the Middle East and elsewhere, both to hide injustices and to silence opposition voices.  But that doesn’t mean that all unofficial videos are true and accurate either, for propaganda may be used by both sides; critical awareness is vital.

Moral judgments are easier the more black and white a situation appears, but people in public office must be careful to obtain accurate information before making judgments – even if it complicates the issue – as their decisions can have profound consequences on relationships.  Thus the news media have a tremendous responsibility to be accurate and impartial in their reporting, so people can make right judgments, and leaders conduct international relations with justice.

Read on
A New York Times blog weaves together a variety of national and international news sources, including videos posted on the internet, to provide a more complete picture of what is happening around and behind news stories.  The entry about yesterday’s egg throwing incident can be read here.

Walk the talk
We often make moral judgments based on information from third parties.  Are there any situations where you would be wiser to gather more accurate and impartial information before making a decision, in order to reduce the risk of treating someone unjustly?

The last word
From the Bible, Proverbs 18:17 “The first to present his case seems right, till another comes forward and questions him.”

Friday 16 September 2011

Unemployment: whose problem?


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“A man willing to work, and unable to find work, is perhaps the saddest sight that fortune's inequality exhibits under this sun.”  Thomas Carlyle

News
Public sector job cuts in Britain reached a new record, as 111,000 people were laid off between April and June.  Decisions to make people redundant are taken primarily on economic grounds, but the experience and impact of unemployment goes far beyond the economic realm.  Being out of work carries huge relational costs.  It puts stress on family and couple relationships through the loss of household income, uncertainty about the future, and in some cases from enforced role changes (e.g. when the woman works longer hours and the man has to carry more of the domestic and childcare work). 

The stigma of unemployment brings psychological pressure, causing to a loss of self-esteem, depression and even suicide.  In the long term it can lead to welfare dependency – particularly damaging for young people who are unable to build up their skills, or begin and provide for a family.  Unemployment is isolating, leaving people with neither work colleagues nor the funds to socialise with salaried friends.

At the community level, the gap between those in work and those out of work often creates social and political tensions.  When a major employer in a town goes out of business, it can decimate the whole community – which happened in many British mining towns in the 1980s.

Unemployment is generally viewed as a political and economic issue.  So governments ensure people receive financial help, and use fiscal measures to create jobs.  But from a relational perspective, what might be done differently? 

Arguably, the locus of responsibility and initiative could be shifted down to a more local level.  The less unemployment is treated as a problem for central government, the more responsive and adaptive the help can be to local conditions and personal circumstances.  City councils could develop initiatives to encourage people and businesses in the local community to share in the challenge of keeping people in work. Such relational responses to unemployment have the potential to reduce the gaps between those in and out of work, and build stronger community relationships as well.

Read on...
15 years ago, the Relationships Foundation set up Citylife (now renamed Allia) to pioneer Employment Bonds – a mechanism for people to invest in creating jobs in local communities.  An article in the Guardian tells the story; read it here.

Walk the talk
Unemployment is a nationwide problem, but is there some way that you can make a difference to just one unemployed person?  You may not be able to offer a job, but could you visit and encourage someone you know who is out of work, or volunteer with a local charity that teaches job skills to young people? 

The last word
From the Bible, Ecclesiastes 2:24 “A man can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in his work. This too, I see, is from the hand of God”.

Thursday 8 September 2011

Response and relationships since 9/11


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“Revenge is the easy way out, but it doesn’t do the vengeful person any good.  Revenge just perpetuates a cycle. I don’t want revenge, I want healing.”  Rachel North, survivor of the 7/7 bombings in London

News
The 10th anniversary of the 9/11 attacks has filled much column space and air time in the media this week.  These range from personal recollections of people caught up in the horrific events of that cloudless morning, to debates on the outcomes of military intervention in Afghanistan and Iraq.

The invasions and regime change in these two countries were part of what George Bush dubbed the “war on terror”.  The 9/11 attacks were seen as security issues; only a military response could guarantee the safety of America and its Western allies.  This set the tone for the decade ahead.

How effective has that response been?  It has succeeded in preventing any further attacks on American soil, which was its foremost objective; however, Al Qaeda bombs have taken many more civilian lives in Bali, Madrid, London, Amman and other cities across the Middle East and Asia, especially in Iraq.

Major investments in security and surveillance technology at airports and borders have caught a number of would-be terrorists, but the average American or European does not feel much more secure than ten years ago.  In part this is due to the rise in fear and suspicion of Muslims in general, compounded by the way that military, religious and political issues have been conflated over the decade. 

What of the cost?  The post 9/11 wars in Afghanistan, Pakistan and Iraq have cost 225,000 lives (of which 31,000 were military personnel and their contractors), and $4 trillion has been spent by America alone.  This is 100 times more than the $43.4 billion spent by the US on official development assistance to those three countries over the same period.

Every country has a right to defend itself, by force if necessary.  But the use of force over the long term to tackle underlying tension usually ends up exchanging one set of problems for another, and is hugely expensive in economic and relational terms.

Looking ahead, the threat of terrorism can be viewed as a security issue or a relational issue.  If the resources spent on trying to make the post 9/11 world safer could lean more on the relational side of the equation (e.g. educating people on the difference between moderate and radical Islam, promoting Christian-Muslim dialogue, or investing more in the development of some of the poorest Muslim countries), then a more sustainable peace could be built – between nations and between ordinary people alike.

Read on...
A panel discussion at Harvard on Tuesday agreed that the 10th anniversary of 9/11 is an opportunity for the US to move away from a military-driven response to a policy built on “diplomacy, outreach and persuasion”.  Read a report on the discussion here.

Walk the talk
Using threats and even force at home or work can sometimes bring about compliance in the short term, but at the lasting expense of trust, respect and understanding.  Are there any on-going tensions that would benefit from patience and careful listening on your part?

The last word
From the Bible, Proverbs 15, verse 1: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

Friday 2 September 2011

After the riots, back to school


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“The poor suffer twice at the rioter's hands. First, his destructive fury scars their neighbourhood; second, the atmosphere of accommodation and consent is changed to one of hostility and resentment.” President Lyndon B Johnson

News
As children and teenagers return from their school holidays in Britain, the riots in August will be a major topic of conversation.  The scenes of chaos and looting bring home the truth that a society which aspires to both freedom and security depends on ample amounts of both trust and self-restraint.  We commented on the relational aspects of trust in an earlier Friday Five; the flip side of trust is self-restraint.  This involves accepting that right and wrong exist in an absolute sense – it’s not just about getting caught – and choosing the right when the opportunity presents to do otherwise (such as a walking past the smashed window of a mobile phone shop, when others are helping themselves). 

Basic moral standards are formed for better or worse in children through parenting at home and the socialisation process in the community – especially at school, and in faith groups.  Values are both taught and caught, and good relationships are both the method by which those values are transmitted and the fruit which they produce.

This reinforces our conviction at Relationships Global that working to improve relationships in public and private life is not a ‘bolt-on extra’ – they are a fundamental part of any healthy society.  Good relationships, or at least functional ones, are taken for granted when all is well; but when decades of broken families and disrespect for authority erupt into scenes of looting and arson, then knee-jerk reactions about being harder on criminals are woefully inadequate.

On the BBC this morning, the Prime Minister spoke about the need for ‘tough love’ in dealing with those involved in the riots.  The government cannot legislate morality, however; their power is limited to indirect influences on attitudes and behaviour.  What is needed is a broad, grassroots movement committed, over the long haul, to recovering moral standards (here faith communities should take the lead) and rebuilding family and local community relationships in the real world. 

Read on...
The Chief Rabbi, Jonathan Sacks, has written a deeply reflective comment on the riots and points towards how social capital can be rebuilt, so as to ‘Reverse the decay of London undone’.  Read this excellent article here.

Walk the talk
Many of the youths convicted following the UK riots have grown up with absent fathers, and are gang members.  One of the greatest needs that all young people have is for real conversations with adults they respect.   Might you help meet that need for any children (perhaps your own!) who lack quality time with an adult? 

The last word
From the Bible, Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”